The Slatters: Brockley brothers in arms

08 Feb

Adelaide Slatter brought up her children in Brockley in the three decades before the Great War. Her sons were exactly of the war generation – four of them served in the conflict, one of them never returned. The Slatter family’s story is at once both unique and similar to those of thousands with sons born in the 1880s and 1890s.

Adelaide Avery married water rate collector Alexander Slatter in 1883. Two of their children (Ethel and Olive) died in infancy and were buried in Brockley and Ladywell Cemetery.This is their headstone:

Slatter family headstone

The third name is Alexander, the girls’ father who died in 1903. The last name on the headstone is Leslie, who died on active service in 1917. It was not unusual for families to add the names of men who died on active service to headstones in the UK, either at the time or when the next headstone was needed (often a parent in the 1920s or 30s).

War memorials are often referred to in academic discussions as ‘surrogate graves’ at which people can mourn someone whose body was not available for a normal burial. In the case of these headstone additions, the surrogate grave for soldiers like Leslie Slatter were actual graves, sites already used by the family to mourn their dead.

The Slatter family home in 1914-18: 108 Manor Road (now Manor Avenue), Brockley

Alexander and Adelaide had at least ten children before Mr Slatter’s death:

  • Alexander B, born 1885 – a clerk in a motor agency in 1911.
  • Olive, born 1887 (died in infancy)
  • Isabel, born 1888 – shorthand typist in 1911
  • Wilfred, born 1889 – no occupation in 1911
  • Dudley Clarence, born 1890 – moved to Canada in 1907.
  • Aubrey J, born 1886 – engineering draughtsman in 1911
  • Oswald G, born 1892 – a shop assistant in 1911, later moved to Australia
  • Ethel, born 1893 (died in infancy)
  • Leslie Stuart R, born 1895 – merchants clerk in 1911
  • Cecil Howard, born 1896 – away from home in 1911 census.

Cecil, Wilfred, Aubrey and Leslie all served in the armed forces in the Great War. The public record of their service is uneven:

Leslie enlisted at Putney in the 3rd County of London Yeomanry, but I don’t know exactly when (it could be that he joined the unit before the war). He later transferred to the Royal Fusiliers and died of pneumonia in March 1917 while serving in the 9th battalion near Arras, France. They were part of 12th (Eastern) Division, who were moved to the area around Arras in January 1917 and attacked the Germans there in April (read more here).  He was buried in the cemetery for No 6 Stationary Field Hospital at Frevent. The War Graves Project website has a photo of his grave in France.

St. Hilaire Cemetery, where Leslie Slatter is buried. (c)CWGC

Cecil enlisted on 1 September 1914 and served with the 20th (Blackheath and Woolwich) Battalion of the London Regiment.  He was wounded at some point in his service and was demobilised in April 1919. The battalion was part of 47th (2nd London) Division, which fought on the Western Front from May 1915 to November 1918 – the battles they took part in are listed here.

Wilfred is listed as absent from home on military service in summer 1918 (in the electoral register), but I couldn’t track down any other records that were definitely him, so we cannot be sure exactly what he did.

There is much more information about Aubrey: he enlisted in November 1915 and in June 1916 went to France with his regiment, the 2/13th Battalion (Kensington) of the London Regiment*. He was repeatedly sick in France and spent three months with a convalescent company. In November, his unit was sent to Salonika Front (in Greece) and in July 1917 they moved on to Egypt via Malta. They were part of the 60th Division, which fought in the Third Battle of Gaze, the capture and defence of Jerusalem in late 1917 and the capture of Jericho in early 1918.

In May 1918 he transferred to the Royal Engineers (2nd (London) Field Company). Having been a draughtsman in civilian life, Aubrey worked as a draughtsman in the Engineers and was praised for the quality of his work when he was demobilised (see below). In August 1919, he eventually set sail from Port Said and returned to Brockley.

Part of Aubrey's service record, noting that he was "an excellent draughter"

Like vast numbers families across the country, the Slatters sent several of their number overseas to fight for their country.  Among Adelaide Slatter’s sons, four served: one was killed and one wounded but most returned. Their war stories were each unique but collectively they tell a familiar story of family service, survival and sacrifice.


* 2/13th means that the unit was formed as the reserve battalion for the 13th Londons, who went out to France in November 1914. The excellent Long Long Trail website gives great summaries of units’ war histories,including the London Regt.


Posted by on 8 February 2012 in Ordinary Londoners, War Dead


18 responses to “The Slatters: Brockley brothers in arms

  1. foxbush

    25 November 2012 at 3:11 am

    Hello. I have stumbled across your blog and wonder if you are related to the Slatters? My husband is and we have visited Leslie’s grave in Frevant.

    • Stuart

      25 November 2012 at 1:06 pm

      Hello. I’m not related, but live in Brockley near the Slatters’ wartime houses. I’m interested in how the fallen were commemorated, especially private commemoration like Leslie’s name being on the family headstone when he was buried overseas. This led me on to look at his family’s story.

    • Denise Slatter

      28 October 2017 at 8:37 am

      Only just come across this .Related Cecil Slatter was our Grandad .

  2. foxbush

    30 November 2012 at 3:36 pm

    Hello, further to my wife’s comment: my grandmother was Isabel Slatter and lived with us until her death when I was a young child. Uncles Cecil and Wilfred used to come and visit when I was small up until their deaths.
    Cecil was wounded in the leg by machine gun fire which was amputated and he had a wooden one which I used to like to rap on with my knuckles! Wilfred had learning difficulties and I recall worked as a night watchman after the war – so my father told me many years ago when I was first interested in family history.
    My wife and I were the first people to visit Leslie Slatter’s grave in Frevant as no Slatters had ever ventured there until us.
    I don’t remember any other Slatters visiting from my childhood.
    The son of Aubrey is still very much alive and I’m in contact with him quite frequently.

    • Star

      10 January 2016 at 11:35 pm

      What a great revelation to find this page. I am so very proud!
      I am one of Cecil Howard Slatter’s grand daughters. My father (the elder son) was given the name of my grand fathers closest brother Leslie. Cecil died around 1965 and dad in 1976.
      We visited Aunt Isabel in Sevenoaks when I was young. Uncle Wilfred lived with us and I can assure you did not have learning difficulties. However he was unfortunate enough to be of a very poorly disposition most of his life. As a child I spent many wonderful hours with Uncle Wilfred and he was a wonderful man.
      Our Slatter line continues today with three Slatter men … One of my brothers and his son and my deceased brother’s son. All recent babies are girls but there is still time.

      • Lesley

        13 January 2018 at 6:34 pm

        Hi just reading all this wonderful info on my grandad Cecil Howard Slatter and realise that there is so much more to our Slatter family, my dad Robert Cecil Slatter was the son of Cecil and has five children myself being the oldest I’m also Lesley (female) and I have two sisters and two brothers who continue the family Slatter name I’m married but my brothers and sisters carry on the Slatter name .

  3. Denise Slatter

    28 October 2017 at 8:36 am

    My. Family my Sister visited Leslie’s grave only this week.Leslie was our Dads name sake .A few of us Slatter’s still going strong .Very moving when you read some of the history .

  4. Laurie Paul

    15 April 2020 at 2:21 pm

    Hi Lesley,
    I am pretty sure Dudley C Slatter was your great uncle. I came from a very broken home in Watrous, SK. Dudley lived a few doors down from us with his wife. He was the one bright spot in my young years and the only memory I have before my mom moved us away to Ontario. I loved Dudley. He was so kind to me and spent lots of time with me. I still think about him with great fondness.

    • Esther Miller nee Slatter

      15 April 2020 at 9:41 pm

      I am the eldest daughter of Leslie Howard Slatter (Cecil’s eldest son) and was named Esther after grandads wife. I inherited her middle name. My grandmother died in the November before I was born (the following may)
      I vaguely remember the name Aubrey but definitely remember visiting Sevenoaks. Could you have been one of the children we met in Sevenoaks.
      I hope you are all well and keeping safe. By the way uncle Wilfred was the best. He had a lot to do with the person I am. X

    • Denise

      19 April 2020 at 6:31 pm

      Hi got an email telling me a notification had been added.Lesley who you refer to is my cousin.Her Dad Robert Slatter was my Dads Brother Leslie Slatter.We are still in contact.There are a few of us around.Cecil Slatter was our Grandad.
      Dudley was related to who not a name I have heard.Great reading.
      Take care
      Denise Slatter

      • Laurie Paul

        19 April 2020 at 9:48 pm

        Hi Denise! Maybe you are not the right Slatters! I was looking at this link Dudley is # 5 in the family and came to Canada. Not sure about the rest. It looks like Cecil was the last born. Thank you for your kind response.

      • Denise

        19 April 2020 at 9:56 pm

        Yes it is the right Family Wilfred lived with my Family when I was young until he passed.Cecil was my Grandad and my Dad Leslie was named after there Brother Leslie who never returned home.

      • Laurie Paul

        19 April 2020 at 10:10 pm

        Interesting! But I guess you didn’t know Dudley! I was hoping he still had some family around.

    • denise snowden

      19 April 2020 at 6:32 pm

      Hi got an email telling me a notification had been added.Lesley who you refer to is my cousin.Her Dad Robert Slatter was my Dads Brother Leslie Slatter.We are still in contact.There are a few of us around.Cecil Slatter was our Grandad.
      Dudley was related to who not a name I have heard.Great reading.
      Take care
      Denise Slatter

  5. Denise

    20 April 2020 at 3:46 pm

    Hello Laurie.Sorry it was really late last night when I was replying to you.
    As Dudley moved to New Zealand none of us in the UK. Would have known him.
    But we are the same Family.
    I obviously remember our Grandad Cecil.Our Dad Leslie and his Brother Robert and Sister Dorothy.
    I have found out that when I was really small we did visit Isabel
    How were you related to Dudley.I assume you are in New Zealand.
    I hope you don’t mind me messaging.

    • Laurie Paul

      20 April 2020 at 6:15 pm

      Hi! I don’t mind you messaging. The Dudley in the link I sent says he moved to Canada. The year he was born in the link is about the same age as the Dudley Slatter that I knew. He obviously lost touch with the family. I was hoping to find some of his descendants. I wanted them to know how much I appreciated him. Otherwise I know nothing about the Slatter’s. I think we have an account with so I may take a look there. Thank you for connecting with me.

      • Denise Snowden

        20 April 2020 at 8:34 pm

        Its very interesting for me.I dont actually know alot about my Dads Family .Sadly I lost my Dad Leslie when I was 16.
        My Sister went to Belgium and visited the Grave of Leslie who was our Great Uncle as Dudley was.Its really good to know people are not forgotten.So how were you related to Dudley .x

  6. Denise

    20 April 2020 at 3:49 pm

    Laurie Sorry that should have said Canada.x


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